From Experiment to Belief: What ‘The Shrinking Couch’ Taught Me So Far

This is the story of how I went from launching The Shrinking Couch as an experiment, to really believing in it. In starting The Shrinking Couch, I had thought that many people would want to write, to contribute, to share their stories. I was wrong. Some people did, but they needed a lot of convincing. … Continue reading From Experiment to Belief: What ‘The Shrinking Couch’ Taught Me So Far

Zentangling: Ice Cream for Mindpain

I often admired these precise lines and curves that were being shared on a craft group. They looked so inviting and psychedelic yet gleamed of a calm. I learnt that this art form was called Zentangle. Zentangle is an art form that uses a lot of different patterns, some that even appear to be three-dimensional. … Continue reading Zentangling: Ice Cream for Mindpain

Twenty Two: A Graphic Novel

Sreeja Basu Sreeja studied communication design at Srishti School of Art, Design and Technology, Bangalore, with a special interest in sexuality studies. She is currently in the liberal arts postgraduation programme with the Young India Fellowship at Ashoka University, Delhi. Her career aim is to blend design thinking and sex education in schools. She enjoys illustrating, … Continue reading Twenty Two: A Graphic Novel

Navigating Open Relationships

I haven’t been sleeping well for a few weeks. I’ve also had a dry cough – messed up throat chakra – and have been meeting a new person off of Tinder every day. Last night’s terrible under-washed date finally tipped it for me. Something in my open relationship wasn’t doing it, or I wouldn’t be … Continue reading Navigating Open Relationships

Professional Advice for the Emotionally Sensitive

(My edit – Professional Advice for Everyone because we are all sensitive, whether we can acknowledge it or not) If you’re reading this, let’s face it you’ve been told to “suck it up” before. In the professional realm there is very little room for heightened feelings unless your professional realm IS feelings–the arts are probably … Continue reading Professional Advice for the Emotionally Sensitive

A Prayer to an Imaginary God in an Imaginary Land

Oo the mighty zah-aur, you are the land of love, the enlightenment wave, the sea that touched the sky.. Thank you for your blessings.. Opening the heart.. Let the air in and out.. Opening the third eye.. Make us see the purest love and what it is about.. Opening the magic ears. To hear.. To … Continue reading A Prayer to an Imaginary God in an Imaginary Land

Borderland

The diagnosis of bi-polar disorder or even a diagnosis of borderline personality ^disorder^ rather than personality structure does not resonate with me at all. At Ambedkar University, we are partial to a depth approach to psychic pain – meaning that we see the symptom as a clue/communication to “personal”, familial and cultural psychic pain and pathology. We attempt, … Continue reading Borderland