Reflecting on Her

What I attempt here is a reflection on my relationship with a friend, tracing the trajectory it took over time. It is something I have produced after lengthy consultation with the individual concerned. I could not have possibly reflected on my relationship with her without hearing her side of the story. The last couple of … Continue reading Reflecting on Her

life is a series of things you put in your mouth

there is nothing as blessed as the hour of sleep or as vile as mornings on the wrong side of the bed life is a series of things you put in your mouth being happy is continual effort memories wash over the slumber of every aching moment till current distractions have adequately flexed their muscle … Continue reading life is a series of things you put in your mouth

through clenched teeth

through clenched teeth we make it through the day i try not to tell people how much i care or how much i’ll miss them when i’ve pushed them away. through clenched teeth we make it through the day – study borderlinity in class everyone must know – i’m that kind of crazy through clenched … Continue reading through clenched teeth

The Power of At Least

If you are an adult reading this, chances are that there is a lot in your life that is less than ideal. Maybe you have one too many bills to pay, perhaps you haven’t found your ‘true love’ or modern day version of ‘tinder dude/ tinderella’ yet, or you suffer from the usual you hate … Continue reading The Power of At Least

Slaying the Marriage Monster

I want to write. That’s the thought I woke up to, after a lot of forced attempts at keeping myself asleep. Strange dreams were plaguing me. Something about my best friend’s wedding being around the corner. Something about my ex-boyfriend arriving at the pre-wedding event venue and acting like all is well between us. He sat down next … Continue reading Slaying the Marriage Monster

Your Guide to Casual Sex + Unavailable Men

As always, a post of this kind is a note-to-self -that-might-resonate-with-others. Since I got out of my first relationship (5 years long, very committed), I’ve only engaged in intimacy of the kind indicated in the subject line – emotionally unavailable men included. Here’s a few things you need to face/grapple with if you venture down … Continue reading Your Guide to Casual Sex + Unavailable Men

Transformation: A journey from FAT (118 kgs) to FIT (75kgs and shredded)

Hello! After a lot of procrastination and self-doubt, I am finally taking the plunge. I am putting my story out there. A wise man once told me “Strong people do not push others down, they pull them up”. These words left an imprint on my mind. So by sharing my story,journey and struggle with all … Continue reading Transformation: A journey from FAT (118 kgs) to FIT (75kgs and shredded)